changes for bookworm transition

• External package versions based on bookworm
• re-add perl-yaml module to all toolchains (required when running Octopus' ctest)
• generic cuda suffix for cuda-dependent modules
• new cuda toolchain (gcc 13.2, cuda 12.6)
• drop old cuda toolchains
• update global Octopus packages: based on gcc 13 and newer cuda (the latter is currently broken but unavoidable)

closes #94 (closed), #117 (closed), !134 (closed)